Thursday, December 4, 2008

love and marriage

Is there anything in the world that is more amazing than sharing life with your best friend?

I have been reflecting lately on how beyond all expectations marriage has been. Marriage is the earthly model of Christ's love for the church, and being a part of it has really helped me to understand the love Christ has for His bride. Beyond that, there are so many "here and now" reasons why its a great thing to be a part of. I had some time last night with Steven where we shared some of the best things about being married to each other, and here's a sampling of my list of reasons (in no particular order) why I'm glad Steven is my one and only.

1. I love that I get to wake up next to him every day. The way he looks right after he wakes up is my favorite "Steven face."
2. I love that he always gives me a kiss and a hug before he leaves for work, whether I'm awake with him or still sleeping.
3. We get to be completely silly and ridiculous with each other without fear of embarassment or judgment.
4. I get to share things with him that no one else gets to be a part of. He gets to see my best, my worst, and everything in between. He gets to know my deepest, darkest secrets; he gets to know and share in all of my hopes and dreams.
5. I love that I get to be there for him when he's not at his best. It's not fun to experience the worst or see him at a personal low, but it's fulfilling knowing that I'm the one he trusts and loves enough to show that side to and allow to support him.
6. He's caring, generous, and a man I am proud of.

Thanks for reading. Here's wishing you the best with your one and only!

1 comment:

Amanda said...

This completely echoes how I feel about Matt :)

Living with your best friend for life is the coolest, yo.